You know better.
And yet... here you are.

You keep asking yourself:

Why do I end up in the same kinds of relationships?

Why do I overgive, overwork, or overexplain?

Why do I keep putting myself last?

Why don't I do the thing I know would help?

You're not confused.

You're frustrated.

And you're ready for something different.

It's not about trying harder.

​​​​​​​It's not about "fixing" yourself.

It's about recognizing the moment where you go off course - and learning how to respond differently before the old patter takes over.

The Way Out

You've had the insight.

You've promised yourself you'd do it different next time.


Then 'next time' comes - and somehow you slip back into the same response.
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This session is for when you're tired of circling the issue and want help stepping out of it.

The Way Out Session

A 90-minute, one-on-one coaching session designed for people who know they’re getting in their own way—and want to change that.


Together, we will identify:

✅ what’s actually happening,

✅ your default response under stress or pressure,

✅ how to interrupt it before it takes over again.


This isn’t about pushing through or performing better.
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It’s about learning how to stay on your own side. To be loyal to yourself.

Without judgment.
Without pressure.
Without pretending.

You are in the Right Place at the Right Time...

 
Most people assume the problem is a lack of discipline, motivation, or willpower.

That’s not it.

What’s actually happening is automatic.

There’s a moment — often quick — where you stop being loyal to yourself.

  • you don't say what you mean to say
  • you agree when you don't want to
  • you fall back into an old role or reaction

Once that moment hits, the pattern takes over.

This session teaches you how to recognize that moment, interrupt it, and respond differently.

Not by forcing change.
Not by talking yourself into it.

By finding The Way Out that is specific to you and your situration.


You'll choose something new, on purpose.

What Clients' Say...

★★★★★

Brenda has an incredible ability to get right to the heart of the matter in a way that feels easy and conversational. You can feel like you’re rambling or going in circles, and within minutes she pinpoints what you’re really saying—or what you don’t yet realize you’re saying.

I was skeptical about life coaching at first and didn’t know what to expect. What surprised me most was how much clarity and progress we made in such a short amount of time. Every session helped me understand myself better and move forward in a way that felt grounded and real.

Alanna

★★★★★

Even after doing a lot of personal work, I didn’t realize how certain beliefs and patterns were still operating beneath the surface. Working with Brenda helped me see where people-pleasing was still influencing my choices without me realizing it.

What I thought was a need for accountability turned out to be a deeper fear of losing my freedom and being at the mercy of others’ expectations. With Brenda’s guidance, I was able to recognize those beliefs and begin responding differently. I now feel clearer, more grounded, and more confident in how I show up.
Sobia

★★★★★

Working with Brenda was deeply enriching. She is committed to truth and offers a grounded, compassionate reflection that helped me see patterns that were keeping me stuck.

Through our work together, I was able to shift out of a stressful, draining career and into one that feels more fulfilling and supportive. Most importantly, I learned how to take ownership of my life and stop punishing myself or keeping myself small. I feel more aligned and at ease than ever before.
Mali

About Brenda Florida

Brenda Florida is a life coach who helps people interrupt the patterns that keep pulling them off course.

Her work focuses on the real-time moments where people override themselves — often without realizing it — and learning how to respond differently when it matters most.

Clients work with Brenda because she:

  • listens deeply
  • cuts through the noise
  • names what’s actually happening
  • and offers tools that can be used immediately in real life

People don’t leave feeling “fixed.”
They leave feeling clearer, steadier, and back on their own side.

Her approach is practical and direct.
No vague self-help language.
No pressure to perform.

Just honest conversation, clear insight,
and tools you can actually use.

You don’t need to change who you are.
You just need support stepping out of patterns that no longer serve you.

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What Changes After This Session?

This session isn’t about perfection.

It’s about regaining choice.

After our time together, clients often notice:

  • they’re less pulled by old triggers

  • they recognize the exact moment they usually lose themselves

  • they pause instead of spiraling

  • they respond instead of reacting

  • they stay loyal to themselves in situations where they usually didn’t

The relief doesn’t come from everything being “solved.”

It comes from realizing:

“I don’t have to abandon myself anymore.”

They found The Way Out.

What We'll Work On Together

 
In this 90 - minute session, we’ll focus on:

~ Naming what’s actually happening (without overthinking it)


~ Understanding why this response developed in the first place

~ Identifying the moment you typically get pulled off course

~ Learning practical ways to interrupt that reflex

~ Reorienting back to choice, clarity, and self-loyalty
 

You'll leave with clear insight and tools you can start using immediately - not just things to think about later.

Who This is For:

This session is a good fit if you:
  • know you’re repeating something and want to interrupt it

  • want practical support — not hype or vague advice

  • are willing to take responsibility for your choices

  • want help slowing down instead of pushing through

This session is NOT a fit if you:
 
  • are in active trauma processing
     
  • want reassurance without responsibility
     
  • expect one session to fix everything
     
  • aren’t ready to look honestly at your own patterns.
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Session Details:

Length: 90 - minutes
Format: Private, one-on-one coaching (virtual)
Investment: $247 ​​​​​​​

This session is designed to create clarity, interruption, and forward movement — not endless processing.

You’re investing in focused time, experienced guidance, and tools that support real change in how you show up.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to know exactly what the pattern is?

No. Most people know something is happening but haven’t fully named it yet. That’s part of what we do together.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching. We focus on awareness, choice, and practical tools you can apply in real life.

Will this fix the issue completely?

This session is about interruption and clarity, not perfection. It helps loosen the grip of what’s been getting in your way.

What happens after I pay for the session?

After purchase, you’ll receive a link to schedule your session and a short intake form so I can come to your session prepared and make the most of our time together.

Is the right if I'm in a crisis?
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This session can provide clarity, but it’s not designed to resolve an acute crisis.

Ready to find The Way Out?

If you’re tired of knowing better - but still getting stuck,
this is a focused, supportive place to begin

The Way Out Session

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